Shit wife not so shit!

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For anyone who read my original thread, I just got back from my business trip without husband and with my crush...I am happy to say we practically ignored each other the whole time. He even excused himself and took himself off to bed early every night, I began to think I'd upset him somehow, but he gave me a massive, genuine tight hug goodbye so I think not. It wouldn't surprise me if he too felt we overstepped the mark the other day. That's the last we'll see of each other for a while now so yes, I feel great for not fucking up my marriage right now

Sounds like a really hard situation. Not sure if I read your original thread.

Well done though for coming through without doing something you would regret, but what will you do next?

Well basically I was 'a bit of a shagger' before I met DH and for 5yrs have been fine with him, but then got my dream job and developed feelings for a single chap I now occasionally work with away from home and slightly ramped up the flirting on a trip we did. I was really REALLY worried that I was returning to my old ways and just having the thoughts meant I was a bad wife. But most on my thread agreed that crushes were pretty normal even for the most faithful monogamists so I could chill out! And that knowledge is giving me the strength to resist. I can't really do much about working with this guy without doing a Uturn on my entire career but so far so good, feel a lot stronger :)

Woo hoo! You should feel very proud of yourself. You obviously love your husband very much and so you are both lucky to have each other!

Well done you!!! So glad to read this

Well done

Well done think, But do you really know what hubby was up to while you were away..........?
;-)

Well done, it takes strength and moral fibre and you have resisted. Congratulations and hope your hubby appreciates you!

I imagine her hubby appreciates the OP for remaining faithful just as much as she appreciates his strength and moral fibre in staying faithful to her.

um no, I don't 100% know what hubby was up to but like everybody I guess I like to stay hopeful?! I don't think him having an affair would really excuse me from having one either....