Is it wrong to PM Ex partners f**kbook friends, about his 'penchant' for prostitutes?

[Lacoba66]

If any of you search my previous thread, then 'yes' I have been a bit of a gullible fool . If you're there Anyfucker- I should have listened....

Anyways, having received a voicemail msg (accidentally?) that was a recording of him on a 'visit' to a "deep tissue massage treatment" (a prostitute) am I being churlish, by wanting to let as many of his female friends know his true character? I know that I must move forward, but is it wrong to want to demean him, as I feel he has done to me?

By the way, I have only done this every time that he attempts contact, and have warned him of that.

I must sound mad...

Yep, I would just keep my head up high until someone asked me why we broke up. Then I would say calmly "well, he was having sex with prostitutes, and after that I just lost all respect for him". Don't make it into a big deal - it's enough of a big deal for the shock to register with just the words.

You know the voice mail wasn't accidental. You even put a ? beside the word yourself.

Don't rise to these things. You give him what you want if you do.

If women on these sites have unprotected sexual contact with a man the meet the are idiots. If men have unprotected sex with women from these sites they are idiots.

Delete messages from him without listening to them.

Ah, OP, everyone should listen to Anyfucker!!!

I agree with PP that Facebook is not the way to go here. If there is some way of doing what Cog suggested though I would probably do that

At some point you have to concentrate all your efforts on loving yourself rather than hating him IYSWIM?

Focus on you, and all the positives in your future. Block him and all his cronies on facebook and move on.

Good luck.

What Cog suggested :)

I would also add that yes, he is a serious STD risk and actually leaving aside the revenge thing, I would feel very disturbed at maintaining silence to another woman I knew was having sex with him.

I think I'd be having the discreet, please don't tell anyone heads up to the person(s) he might be having sex with and telling them if I were you, please use a condom with him.