a friend is having a minor nightmare over what to wear at a wedding. It occured to me that I had a couple of things she might want to borrow, so I called her and asked if she would like to. In the course of this conversation she remembered a third thing I have, which she really likes. To put it bluntly I don;t really want to lend it to her. It's a gorgeous dress, it's very distinctive, and if anything happened to it it couldn't be replaced as I bought it a couple of years ago - and have never seen anything at all like it. friend is a little inclined to drink too much and I would really worry about the dress. because I'm a wuss I said yes, but I've just got it out and realised that I really meant no. shall I just pray that she tries it on and doesn't like it? (doubtful cos it's the most amzingly flattering dress I've ever owned) or do I wriggle out of it?