Worst 2 days of my life.. breaking down

[broodynmoody]

My ex has stooped so low. After i took on his two kids and done more for them than he did he goes and drags my name through the mud. He has always been attention seeker and loves Facebook. He will make any opportunity to get his clothes off and do stupid stuff for attention. But this time it involves me. Over the past 2 days he's put several statuses on accusing me of threatening phone calls Facebook messages and now going into his garden (which is enclosed off btw). He phoned the police so i went down myself and told them. They agreed and thought it was ludicrous especially since the garden is enclosed off and all the threatening messages he got he had deleted them and 'couldnt remember their name' but yet all of his chavvy rough family believe all these lies and think im a psycho and want to bray me. Im feeling so down i can't keep it together and put on a brave face for my parents anymore

Try and look at his behaviour as a stranger would. Does it warrant such emotion? To you, yes. To a stranger, no. You are clearly a better person than he is. Ignore his troublemaking as much as you can.

Block him and all his family on all social networking. Pronto. Block, not delete! That way you can't search them late at night after a wine and they can't see you either.

Block him and all his family on all social networking. Pronto. Block, not delete! That way you can't search them late at night after a wine and they can't see you either.

I suggest that you pursue this further with the police. He's already guilty of wasting their time and has shown himself to be irrational into the bargain. Call the 101 non emergency number, tell them about the Facebook stuff, the threats from his family and ask their advice. Good luck

What an idiot

If he carries on op I would go to the police regarding him and his harassment

The police said what he outs on his facebook is upto him its a civil matter. If he messages me texts me etc than its a police matter and harassment. So hes putting total lies and accusations on his status hes family is commenting and saying there going to knock me out. And theres naf all i can do.

I had some ex friends write lies and abusive things about my family on fbook op, the anger and sense of shock and injustice was huge. I really feel for you. They actually didn't name us but it was obvious. Dd's head teacher, also in the firing line told us as soon as they mentioned a child's name she would take legal action, they never did so not sure what she meant. I never retaliated. I detest using fbook to air dirty laundry.

In your shoes though I think I might block his family and then put one clear status up saying that your ex is spreading lies about you, there is no foundation in them and ask people not to add comments. I really feel for you, it's a horrible situation to be in.

You need to block him and his family from your FB and ignore it.

If they post threats to you, then it's a criminal matter and you should report it to the police.

I suspect making a string of false claims to the police could constitute harassment too. But you'll have to liaise with the police on that. Or get legal advice.

Definitely block... His family might believe him but to everyone else he'll look loopy. If it's raised personally, I might enquire as to why, if you're meant to have done x, y and z, he's not approached you about it. Bizarre behaviour