My sister has really peed me off....

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My sister's just split up with her boyfriend (about 2 weeks ago) and is in the process of moving out. She mentioned around this time that she fancied his best mate and had told best mate on drunken night out. They arranged a meeting and they decided to leave any feelings they have for one another for 6-12 months....fair enough.
Well today she texted me with a 'PS I've got a confession to tell you...' on the end. Well they met up last night and have decided to see each other on the sly. Now I was upset they were breaking up, but now I'm so p*ssed off with her. It all seems so hasty and selfish.
I know I should be loyal and supportive to my sister but feel awful for x-bf. We've only just got back from a lovely family holday together, and my kids love him.
Anyway she was supposed to be coming over this evening but I've told her not too as I don't want to have a massive go at her because I know she's feeling bad too
And also it's my gran's birthday tomorrow and she only died a month ago Not connected obviously but not helping matters

Families eh - who'd have them, but we wouldn't be without them either!

Hope tomorrow isn't too difficult for you.

Thanks fairyjay,
been to see my mum and I'm feeling much better, think I'll just keep quiet for a week or so and hopefully I'll feel much better about things. Still don't want to see him though, ever! The git!

How old is she, coz it's fairly insensitive behaviour!

Peregrine, she's 25. And I'm glad you've said that as I thought it was just me who thought that. I just can't believe that she thinks going off with live-in boyfriend(of 3 years!)'s best mate is acceptable. Apparently she's said to my mum 'well you can't make me feel worse than I do already' But that's just her trying to make us feel sorry for her but it won't wash with me.
I was also going to see Russell Brand with them (her, x-bf and knock off(!) as well as a couple of others) but I've said I'm won't be going, due to present circumstances. And I'm also nearly as gutted about that

She is being a bit insenstive and immature but it is her life and sounds like she is determinded to make waves (otherwise why burden you with it?) Tell her you don't want to know anything about it and don't get into the whole secret thing.

Also don't be pissed off as she may be after that kind of reaction.

My sister has pissed me off to - still love the bitch though!