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I think my marriage is over...

33 replies

JadeJ123 · 20/08/2014 22:20

Me & dh have been married for 2 years have a mortgage together.
He's constantly got friends over and expects me too cook for them even at 2am!
Told me he couldn't be arsed with me when I was crying my eyes out at the fact he wouldn't have a conversation with me about our relationship.
Works 6 days a week 8-6 tells me he's too tired to talk to me and goes out with friends or too bed. And recently told me he's going on a stag night and not to expect him home, I seriously can't take much more of this. DSD cries because he'll start and argument then screams at the dogs when they growl at him for screaming at me because they're protecting me. I think my marriage is over Sad

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AC786 · 21/08/2014 22:31

Good luck. How does DSD stay with someone like this 90% of the time?!

JustDontWantToSay · 21/08/2014 23:13

Gosh. So hope you're ok. Never mind whether he CAN take the dogs (highly doubt) just take them with you anyway. You're likely to end up with a restraining order. X

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CalamityKate1 · 22/08/2014 00:00

Trot off and get him to solve your literacy problem then.

KoalaDownUnder · 22/08/2014 08:43

I hope you are okay, OP. Am proud of you for leaving.

Vivacia · 22/08/2014 08:51

Another poster here also thinking of you OP.

hellsbellsmelons · 22/08/2014 09:21

You're doing all the right things.
I hope you get away today.
Glad you had people with you last night.
Take the dogs with you for sure.
Here's to the beginning of a life free from fuckwits.

Please also consider doing the Freedom Programme. You can do it on-line.
Just gives you a heads up to red flags in a relationships and shows you beginnings of abuse etc....

Stay strong!

LEMmingaround · 22/08/2014 09:28

Just thank the good lord that you haven't wasted any more time on thus wanker. Go and take your dogs with you.

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