Reasons for divorce.

[carolinecupcake]

Can I just ask why you divorced or separated?

He was having sex and living with someone else. Left me the very young DC with an empty bank account and debts.

He was a shit husband and dad and the icing on the cake was when he had an EA.

Why do you ask OP? Do you think your reasons are not good enough?

What do YOU think are good reasons to leave a relationship ?

Odd question to ask. Why?

Lack of shared interests,totally different ideas of how to deal with teenagers, never wants to do things together so I end up doing them on my own,don't really see much point in us being together anymore!

Neither do I OP. Staying with a shadow isnt worth it.

The last time we kissed was on our wedding day :(
He won't even hold hands with me, never mind any other physical contact.
He won't speak to me.
He makes no effort to move our lives forward together.
I'm lonelier when he's in the house than when he is not.

I completely echo what Tinks42 just posted. Staying with a shadow isn't worth it. My self esteem is shot.

We're on holiday at the moment but we just do separate things - he doesn't want to go anywhere or do anything. I just go off on my own but don't know anyone else who does this. A normal relationship shouldn't be like this.

I ended up doing everything on my own with dcs,when he did come out it felt like he didn't want to be there. Even at home I was on my own - he was in the house doing what he wanted to do(tv,computer)dcs and I were getting on with the everyday stuff and eventually left him behind - he didn't have a clue what we did cause he wasn't interested. Much better now without him:)

My husband was the full package; kind caring thoughtful loving first class dad, but I fell out of love with him. We no longer shared the same hopes and dreams. I changed. He has now met someone who thinks she has won the lottery & I am happier than I have ever been. No regrets whatsoever!