I have been married to DH for 24 years, 3 DC. DH had a breakdown about 18 months ago, due to work stress. I supported him through this and tried to be there for him even though at times it was very claustrophobic! I am (pre) menopausal and I know I have perhaps not always been the easiest person to live with lately but I thought we were doing ok, youngest child (15) hasn't been the easiest of children and has definitely tried all our patience in the last couple of years. DH has suddenly come out with the statement that he's no longer happy, I irritate him and he thinks we've drifted apart. He had been different towards me for about 6 months , no longer loving and hugging me etc. but I just put that down to busy work etc. I was looking forward to our holiday for a chance to spend some quality time together but he was just as distant. I am completely heartbroken, I feel he should be supporting me through my menopause or at least be a little understanding but it feels like he has just kicked me when i'm down. He says there's no body else and he doesn't want us to split up but how do we get over this? I can't think straight at the moment, I am so devastated that the last 24 years seem to mean nothing to him. He seems completely oblivious to my tears and how hurt I am, in fact they just seem to make him more irritated! He thinks we can mange to 'drift' back together again but is that really possible? What do others think? is it possible to refind our love or am I kidding myself?