Complete imbecile....please shoot me!

[Rocklover]

This is a bit embarrassing TBH so sorry if TMI. Last night I did something really stupid...I slept with my "separated" DH. Worse still, I am no longer on the pill and we had no other birth control. The only thing I can be grateful for is that DH did not carry on to the end so to speak.

Now I am totally, totally terrified (irrationally) that I will get PG, although I know the chances are tiny. To be fair DH was the perfect gentleman and I refuse to blame him for this, just so upset at myself for being weak. There is no chance that we will get back together at this stage, so it was just "one of those things".

Berate me if you will, but please go easy on me, as I'm feeling like a fool!

dh means darling husband if separted is he not just H

get hold of the morning after pill if you're worried.

i wouldnt beat yourself up about it, it happens a lot

but maybe you should go for the morning after pill?

Thanks ladies, I might go for the MAP as i am a worrier and although I know how hard it was to fall with DD (9 months to be exact), there is always the one mistake waiting to happen.

Yes Hermykne, he is in fact just a H lol. Why do women do this to themselves?

well you could see it as a good thing, it sounds like it has made you sure that you wont be getting back together again

we do it out of pity/lonliness/a need for affection/the hope that maybe we could get our feelings for the man back...which would be a lot less complicated than splitting up i suppose,especially if u have children together.
just make sure he knows it was an unfortunate mistake on ur part.and get the morning after pill or an IUD if ur worried cos u never know and its better to err on the side of caution.
don't worry though,many women have done the same(or worse) at some point