My (d)h left me and 3dc in May this year. I'm now at a point of starting to think positive about the future. No-one else involved said he still loves me but isn't happy in the marriage and feels we have too many issues that we can't work through!
I'm really confused about my feelings. After he moved out he made an attempt to come back and I said no as I was too angry to deal with him. He then said a month later "you were right not to take me back, it wouldn't have worked".
Why am I so pissed off that he doesn't want to come home. We have a lovely house, 3 lovely dcs and a nice life. He now lives in a rented one bedroom flat, how can he prefer that to being at home. I don't want him back but want him to want to come back.
Sorry for rambling but trying to make sense of my feelings. Has anyone ever felt this way.