To cut a long story short I have a sister who is insanely jealous of me and hates it when I'm happy or even worse, if I am celebrating. She caused a major drama on my wedding day and cast a big cloud over it. Some family members told me to go nc with her after that and I was generally supported in the family and didn't see her or talk to her for a couple of years. Then when I had my first baby she came and did the same thing all over again, caused a major fight in our house, family members in tears, me in absolute bits. I will never get over how anyone can try to destroy anyones most happiest moments in their life and so I am now nc and feel better for it although this has meant my children have lost contact with a big part of their family, cousins etc.
Thing is her son is about to get married and the whole family are looking forward to a lovely wedding day which of course I will not be attending. I am just so angry that she gets to enjoy her sons wedding, that her family have a wedding day that goes celebrated and not destroyed, that she can waft out of all this destruction to get the wedding day for her son that she wanted while she ruined mine. I can imagine now when he has a baby how the whole family will be there enjoying that precious moment when mine was practically ruined.
How on earth can I stop feeling so bitter about it? I am being consumed by the injustice of it.