I am in a new-ish (6 month) relationship with a man who I really like and who I thought liked me. Things were great in the beginning but now I'm beginning to worry.
We used to have sex allll the time, which I suppose is normal in a new relationship. But now it's once a week if I'm lucky. And it's not just the sex, all the affection, touching, innuendo has disappeared. He'll kiss me goodbye when he leaves but that's all. When he gets in bed he complains if I touch him and wraps himself up in the duvet.
I used to try to initiate sex, but he would quite often start and then give up before either of us had finished. So now I dont bother, and he doesnt seem to have noticed.
He says he is too tired, but nothing has changed and it never used to stop him. And we are only talking six months here! He does work nights and complain of being tired a lot, he's been to the doctors about it but they found nothing physically wrong.
It just makes me feel so shit. I'm quite overweight and not much to look at it, and I just keep thinking how I wouldnt want to sleep with me either. But now I'm wondering what the point is. He works three nights a week and spends three nights with his friends, so we only have one night together. He sleeps in late, understandably, but if he's at my house he either gets up and goes straight out somewhere or stays in bed until i've gone to work in the afternoon. But I feel like I cant say anything about this because I have a young DD, so the alternative would be being stuck in the house with me.
Does anyone have any advice? Am I wasting my time? I really dont want to end it while I still really like and fancy him but obviously he doesnt feel the same, and its not something that's likely to improve is it :(