Hes not being aggressive or difficult or in any way neglectful of child care arrangements so really I am very lucky, but he is driving me crazy.
This mornign for example, he arrives to take DS1 to school (hes on nights so its his only opportunity to see the kids today) and he comes upstairs to wake me up - that in its self is a dangerous move, I am not a morning person
But he will stand in the bedroom and slowly look around it, taking in whether anything has moved, or is new (ie belonging to someone other than him!) looking for signs that ive had another man in there (of course I have im not a nun!) Also, if hes around and im on the phone he will loiter in the door way and listen and I have to ask him what he wants, the reply is always "nothing...I'll leave you in peace if you are having a private call..." (well yes I am, my social life is nothing to do with you...)
Or if im going out, its always "where are you going?" "when will you be back?" "Who are you going with?"
And phone calls to "see how I am" or "how your day has been"
I am probably being mean, but its doing my head in!!! He doesnt know that I date, although we have been apart for 4 months now and imo I am an adult and single and can see whom ever I like. (We havent started divorce things yet and I dont want to risk things going nasty this early on - which they might if he knew i was dating iyswim)