Just wanted some opinions on what to do in my situation. I've just ended a relationship with someone as he completely disappeared and was ignoring my attempts to contact him, despite him being on Facebook etc.
The relationship was only a couple of months long, but he had been very full on, contacting several times a day every day, talking about next year, asking me to go on holiday with him to the point I had to slow things down. I was perfect for him, blah blah. Everything was fantastic until bam! He vanishes..
After I ended the relationship he contacted me and told me he just needed space and that nothing had been wrong, and then tried for a few nights to get me to go to his for sex...I woke up one Sunday morning to a picture of his cock! Which was the point I blocked his number haha.
Anyway, it turns out there is another girl involved and there seems to have been some overlap here. She seems lovely and has no idea of this I don't think. Her ex husband left her for somebody else and she's had a rough time, so I feel awful that she doesn't know this was going on.
Should I let her know only 2 weeks have passed since all of this, or just leave things be? I would want to know I think, so I could be extra cautious- they both have children. I'm not looking for revenge, I just feel really bad for this woman. I don't know her at all and it's easier not to say anything, but that makes me a bit uncomfortable really.