So me and my mrs split up for four months last year. During that time she had a relationship with somebody else. We got togerther again in January and I fairly quickly found out about it. She was seeing this bloke who with big muscles and a big dick and since i've got pretty low self esteem anyway it really got to me. We had it out and I convinced her I'd be over it and we could move on from it.
Trouble is I really can't. Fast forward to last night and it all came out, how I still thought of it, how it still constantly plays on my mind and how it's still hurting me. I know this is all about me and it's really really not fair on her bringing this stuff out now months on but I can't help it. She's been off in the bedroom recently and it's really put it to the forfront of my mind.
She won't talk about it, understandably as it's so long ago but I really need to move on. Anyone else been through the same and how did you get through it? Thanks.