Does anyone else experience huge variations in their sex drive over time? And if so how does it effect your relationship?
DH and I have been together 15 years. At times I am consumed with desire to sleep with him as frequently as possible, this seems to happen every few months and last a few months. I will Iniate sex at least every 24 hours and often more in these periods.
But at other times I am totally uninterested and almost have to force myself to sleep with him and even then it's once a month or so. There is no middle ground really. There is also no correlation with how well we are getting on or anything easy to identify like that.
DH is amazing and never pushes for sex if I'm not keen but tonight he told me that he finds the fluctuations very difficult. He says he feels he is married to two different women.
I wonder if others experience such exaggerated fluctuations? Or do others have experience of successfully increasing sex drive when it's low?