How do I move things from getting along together to getting it ON together?

[howdoimakehimnoticeme]

Regular. N/C. All the usual blah.

Work in a large multinational. Have a senior manager who doesn't manage me. But for various reasons we have to work together in some areas.

Have engaged in what I think is flirting by email and on the phone - he emails evenings/weekends/when he's on holiday and not all about work stuff.

We have a standing "in" joke.

I am junior, work on a different site and am going to have no reason shortly to contact him, as the project we are working on is coming to an end.

I really like him and I think he's flirting with me. My colleagues have commented that they think he likes me.

What do I do next? I don't want to pester him and make a tit of myself if I'm wrong, but neither do I want to let him slip through my fingers if he does like me.

I like him. A lot. Both in our 40's and both definitely divorced.

Go for it!! If you won't be seeing eachother professionally anymore what you got to lose? Jump on that horsey and ridddde it

Tell him!! When you meet for coffee, tell him you really like him, enjoy his company and would likd to see him out of work. Sod the work hierarchy, he's still just another human being! Unless of course your work is something like military and there are strict rules about no fraternising, but otherwise, go for it! If he's not interested, well at least you won't be working directly with him soon so you'll have space and time to get over any embarrassment, but life's too short to kiss out on chances of things we want! Good luck