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Am I being unreasonable

3 replies

Lonecatwithkitten · 10/08/2014 15:47

Long back story we are divorcing due to Ex's affair, he then got done for drink driving with DD in the car, then she revealed he and OW had verbally abused her. I am helping him rebuild his relationship with DD and they are currently at the stage of meeting unsupervised for several hours in a neutral public place mainly due to my support.
So today I have had a call as we had a BTL flat which he got in the settlement did I still have a key as he has managed to lose all the keys and the property is currently empty - no I gave them all to you unlike a set of the house keys (now mine) which you lost.
Then a text are you in contact with friend who lives in European country, yes via Facebook. Oh well can you get their phone number as I don't do Facebook.
Currently I am just not answering that text as I feel this just like when we were married he expects to snap his fingers and for me to run around sorting thing out for him.

OP posts:
Galvanized · 10/08/2014 15:48

Yanbu.

PlacidApricots · 10/08/2014 15:49

He is not your responsibility you are well within rights to ignore.

CarbeDiem · 10/08/2014 16:04

Yanbu. It's his problem not yours.
Maybe a gentle
'' Have you forgotten I'm no longer married to you, finger snapping doesn't work anymore'' would spell it out.
Seriously, in your shoes I wouldn't have minded replying a simple ''No, I haven't'' but nothing more.

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