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family wedding anniversary party should i go?

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stitch · 17/09/2006 12:40

dh's niece has her first wedding anniversary party today. i really dont want to go. last week during his yellin g aat emmm, he said he was dreading it, because he was damned if i went, and damned ifhe didnt take me. his life is a misery because of me, etc etc etc.
i really dont want to go, and have told him so. he doesnt seem to be creating a fuss about it. asked me to get the kids bathed and i think he is getting ready himsself now.
should i insist on going so he cant sideline me? we do nothing together. not even fight any more, as i just let him yell,

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stitch · 17/09/2006 19:21

i might as well not exist on mumsnet, as in rl, for all the attention anyone gives me.

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KBear · 17/09/2006 19:24

stitch - what did you do in the end?

Horus · 17/09/2006 19:26

i didnt go
spent afternoo n at home feeling sorry for myself.
also got bad period pain, and nothing on telly.
soo more sorry for myself.

WelshBoris · 17/09/2006 19:27

Its like Jodie Marshs brain around here on a Sunday Stitch

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thewomanwhothoughtshewasahat · 17/09/2006 19:29

didn't see this stitch. no advice but sorry you are feeling rubbish.

Horus · 17/09/2006 19:32

sokay,
thank you for being nice to me now

Horus · 17/09/2006 19:34

i think will change back to my name now.

thewomanwhothoughtshewasahat · 17/09/2006 21:53

are you coming to the London meet up Stitch? would be nice to see you

hulababy · 17/09/2006 21:55

Sorry you have had such a bad day.

Agree that Sundays are so quiet int he day on here.

Bozza · 17/09/2006 21:55

first wedding anniversary party not all that significant IMO. Tell her to clock up a few more years first!

Sorry hope that wasn't too flippant. What did DH have to say about it then?

thewomanwhothoughtshewasahat · 17/09/2006 21:57

I agree Bozza - i've never heard of anyone having a first wedding anniversary party. sounds a bit me-centric.

StitchtheCrafter · 18/09/2006 08:24

it is incredibly me centric.
something that dh thinks i am pettyf or remembering, but this girl nor her mother have bothered to come see dd after she was born. you know, the neew baby visit. dd is 3.5 now.
dumping a carrier bag full of cheap clothes in my car when bil borrowed it isnt my idea of appropriate behaviour towards your brothers only daughter.
i think it worked out well. at least dh hasnt had reason to yell at me.
i intend to come to the meetup. last year was great fun. hopefully this year will be lovely to meet you all again.

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