Asking a third party is what everyone does here on the forums....
Yes and what you get here is a variety of opinion from many women and indeed men .. all of whom have had direct experience of relationships in one form or another. That's useful, and can be very helpful. It also doesn't cost you nowt other than the time it takes to post. You'll get a whole gamut of opinion, suggestion, advice - some of it good, some of it not so good, some of it useful, some of it not.
That is vastly different from a single 'third party' who sits across the table from you claiming she has psychic powers and talking about 'soulmates'.
'She was very factual' is the thing that seems to persuade some that 'there's something in it'. ' Ah well you see, she told me this and she knew the name of my great aunt Fanny and I never told her, so how could she know this, and she told me I had my heart broken once before in the past - and it's true! I did! Amazing!' etc. etc. All of the evidence in support of these people is anecdotal but when any are subjected to any kind of analysis - it all goes down the crapper.
I had a 'psychic' once tell me to check the radiator in my daughter's room as there was a fault with it. A day or so later, well, whadya know - the radiator wasn't getting hot when you turned the central heating on. Impressive! Shame all the rest of it was bollocks.
Like I said - 'Cold Reading .... Shotgunning .... The Forer Effect' - look them up. Clever and persuasive, but still bollocks I'm afraid.