After my 3 year relationship with ex partner ended very badly a few months ago, I have ended up meeting a man I'm really attracted to. He's French, has his own business, is really romantic and handsome and to be honest, I'm enjoying the attention because my ex was emotionally abusive, cheated on me and really lowered my self esteem.
This man seems quite genuine. However, reading between the lines he has had lots of experience sexually (way more than me, as I've only slept with 3 people.) Also, when I looked on his Facebook, there was an album of when he went travelling around Australia last year. He'd put up one photo he'd taken, with the caption "Best place in the world!" and the picture is of 2 skinny, tanned young women on a beach who are wearing next to nothing ( tiny thong bikinis that don't leave much to the imagination at all.) They are turned away from the camera, as if he'd taken the photo without them knowing. One of them is bent right over doing something, so you have a very good view of her virtually bare behind.
Now I'm not one of these, tall, beautiful, skinny girls he seems to like. I am in my late 20s, petite with an average build, lumpy bits and all. I don't have a beach perfect body. It has also made me feel a bit 
because it seems like a pervy thing to do.
Would this put you off? I've only been talking to him a few weeks and he seems to really like me - texting every day etc. I just don't want to be his next conquest if that's all he's after. The last thing I want to do is to get involved with another 'player' type.