lost and lonely

[dreamydaysbytheriver]

I have been married for eight years, and have two beautiful children. DS is 7 and I also have a 4 month old DD.

DH has always been controlling, it's fair to say this has got worse. It was manageable once but now it just isn't. I was planning to leave in the autumn. Now, I've found out I am pregnant again, I'm a fool I know. Please don't tell me this.

What can I do? I can't terminate - I've already had an abortion I can't forgive myself for.

Well, if that's really the case, you're going to have another baby. Congratulations. I'm sorry its happened at an awkward time.

Pause for breathing. Then make quiet plans to establish yourself with your children and without your husband. I'm assuming he's not all that 'd' as he's controlling.

Plan very quietly and have your moves made before he realises. He won't like you trying to get away.

Good luck.