Well, was supposed to have my first date yesterday but a catalogue of errors and a substantial intake of alcohol rather meant it never started. And we've actually had an argument before we've even been out somewhere - impressive? I met this bloke last w/end in Brighton and rather liked him, I think. He asked for my number and was phoning rather a lot during the week and asking if we could meet up. I felt ridiculous, kept cutting him off rather abruptly and also said what if we met up and I didn't like him. He was rather perplexed as he said but we've already met and I said yes, but I can't really remember. I've also mentioned the fact that my h and I MAY reconcile. Anyway he called on Wednesday and wanted to call back that evening to arrange the Thursday but I told him not to as I was having an early night. Can't remember if he was going to call me/vice versa. I don't think he called and I got plastered with my head of design and ended up in a bit of a mess - ie, v v v drunk and incoherent. I left quite a few messages - apparently on the wrong phone telling him what I thought of him. I got through very late and he said he'c call me back when he got home which he did. I asked him to call later as I was busy. He didn't. I've sent a text saying hell. If you've got this far and haven't died of boredom any advice??