Some impartial advice needed

[Lisa280877]

My oh is pissed off with me cause we went away for his bday and he didn't like the pants that I Wore and he said that I should have brought something to change into so now he's really mad and is not talking to me

Pants as in trousers, or pants as in knickers?
Not that it matters. Your clothes, your choice.

Knickers

take them off? Maybe he'd prefer that:)

Have to agree though, your clothes, your choice.

Is it common in your relationship for your OH to have a say in what you wear under your clothing?

Anyone who "doesn't talk" to their partner in order to punish them for some invented transgression needs to be kicked to the bloody kerb.

'Brought something to change into' what exactly did he have in mind?

He's not talking to you because he didn't approve of your choice of knickers??

Is he like this over other things? How long have you been together? Is the relationship generally balanced?

"I'm sorry you don't like em, I'll know for next time, lets just have fun"

or

"fine, I'll see you back home" And leave.

Sorry, not to be too intrusive about it but presumably this is for sex, right? i.e. he wanted you to wear a kind of knickers that turn him on?

Either way, this is totally unacceptable behaviour. To be punishing you for failing to wear the knickers he deems correct is indicative that at best he is very entitled and at worst he is abusive.

Does he normally do things like this?

Is he always such a cunt?

Pack your bags and go home love, life is too short to put up with crap like this.

Seriously? Your clothes - you should wear what you want. If he's a fan of frillies or skimpies maybe he should try wearing them?

I guarantee you that every post you receive on this will tell you that you OH is a controlling cunt! It may be worded slightly more politely but the message will be the same!

You know that his behaviour is disrespectful and degrading don't you? You have a choice in who you have around you you know?

salute to you Hamptoncourt, wonderfully put :)

Bows

It's Sunday afternoon - where does he think you are going to find new pants, even if you wanted to buy some? (And why the fuck should you?)

If he wants to act like a spoilt brat I would leave him to it.