Hi, just wondering if I am making a big deal over this and should tell OH how I feel about it.
I had this ex when my eldest dd was a baby and had split from her dad I got with a guy who I fell for madly, was with his 6 months only but he made a big mockery of me. Cheating, lying, taking drugs after split up he used to watch my house and would drive away when he knew he was seen, he knew I was madly in love with him and would play on it. Would tell me hed been in an accident to try get me to come see him etc. Then took great pleasure in knocking on my door he had got a girl pregnant while with me was fuming.... Anyway im not as nieve as I was then and I do think im a bloody idiot. Ive kind of left it in the past but I still feel very embarrased and feel discusted I let him act like this.
Anyway always try my best to ignore him when see him about, eventually he stopped bothering me once he knew I was back with dds dad. Been with OH 15 months and one day about a year ago we drove past the ex and OH beeped him, I was actually mortified. I was honest with him and told him I was with him years ago and gave him the basics of what happened I didnt go into detail about how much he hurt me or anything like that I hate people knowing how stupid I was. He said he knows him through a mutual friend but wasnt mates so said I wouldnt have to worry.
Been browsing fb and I noticed a status yesterday from OHs mate who is also friends with ex and they had both commented and having a full blown convo about me, well not exactly about me but congratulating him on the pregnancy and he asked how my dd was doing. I got a shiver down me I feel so upset im going to have to tell him how I feel.
HoW can I tell him how I feel about it, without it seeing like Im overly bothered. Ifyswim 