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Saw ex last night

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HollyGuacamolly · 26/07/2014 10:34

(Not father of my baby)

I saw an ex (brief fling) from a few years back in a club last night and it knocked me for six. As soon as he walked in I felt physically sick so I did the mature thing and pretended not to see him Hmm. He came over to me, said hi and gave me a hug and I literally just melted (not helped by the fact he is drop dead gorgeous). We exchanged pleasantries and then we just went back to our respective friends. I tried to be dignified about it but as soon as I saw him I wanted to be back in his arms.

I don't even know why I posted this so sorry it's a bit jumbled. I've thought about him a lot over the years and never thought I'd see him again. We could never have a relationship for many reasons, but you know when you see someone across a room and your heart just stops? I feel heartbroken all over again

OP posts:
CogitoErgoSometimes · 26/07/2014 10:44

Do you currently have a boyfriend/partner? Could you just be feeling lonely or underappreciated?

lunar1 · 26/07/2014 10:46

I think most of us have that ex. Someone who you know it would never work with but you have great chemistry with. Remind yourself of all the reasons it didn't work out.

Lweji · 26/07/2014 10:49

Who ended it?

HollyGuacamolly · 26/07/2014 11:05

I'm single at the moment (and pregnant - don't worry I wasn't drinking!).

It was a mutual split - he didn't want to commit (lives the party lifestyle), so we went our separate ways.

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Lweji · 26/07/2014 11:25

It wasn't really mutual, because you wanted commitment but he didn't. You chose to end it but you would really have wanted it to last.

It may help to recognise it.

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