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Just found out that my friend took her own life *possible triggers*

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AnotherStitchInTime · 25/07/2014 14:17

She leaves behind three kids. So sad.

She was a victim of DV. Her mental health suffered. She was inpatient only days before, but they let her go home with regular supervision. Not regular enough Sad

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EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 25/07/2014 14:17

Sorry to hear that :( Flowers

Mumof3xox · 25/07/2014 14:18

Oh my goodness how awful

Those poor dc

I hope they (and you) have people surrounding you to help you through this

AnotherStitchInTime · 25/07/2014 14:23

Two of her kids were already in foster care and one with his dad. At least they weren't at home with her when she did it. Feel sorry for the kids. Eldest will understand, but the toddler is too young.

Poor woman went through so much, but her abuser was due to be released and it tipped her over the edge Sad

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MorphineDreams · 25/07/2014 14:25

I'm so so sorry to hear this and I hope you're not suffering too much.

3 of my friends have taken their own lives in the past 7 years, it's heartbreaking.

QisforQcumber · 25/07/2014 14:27

I'm so sorry to hear that, its incredibly sad.

He cant hurt her now, may she rest in peace. Thanks

AnotherStitchInTime · 25/07/2014 14:27

Thank you for your concern, I am OK, just shocked. I didn't know she was home I thought she was still receiving treatment.

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Trooperslane · 25/07/2014 14:29

So sorry op.

My SILs 10th anniversary was a while ago.

Still so painful for us but more importantly her closer family.

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AnotherStitchInTime · 25/07/2014 14:32

Sorry for those of you that have lost loved ones this way too. Wish I could have done more to help her, I tried.

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Trooperslane · 26/07/2014 17:36

You shouldn't feel guilty, Stitch.

As sad as it is she made her own choices.

Confused

I'll light a candle for you and her and her wee ones tonight. X

AnotherStitchInTime · 26/07/2014 17:45

Thanks troopers

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HumptyDumptyBumpty · 26/07/2014 18:06

Oh jeez another that's so so sad. I'm sorry, lovely. Sorry for your loss, and for the three babies. Sending love and strength.

GretchenWiener · 26/07/2014 18:07

the ripples of suicide run wide , I am afraid.
Do look these guys up
uk-sobs.org.uk/

thornrose · 26/07/2014 18:13

It's really hard to help people in this situation, it's so very complex.

Please don't feel guilty. Thanks

GretchenWiener · 26/07/2014 18:13

you can't stop it. The determination of people to take their own lives is astounding.

MorphineDreams · 26/07/2014 18:20

There's absolutely nothing you could have done. I asked myself the same thing and no, it doesn't work. Those who want to take their own lives are very determined and will do it.

juliascurr · 26/07/2014 20:42

so very sorry
tragically, it is quite common for DV survivors
Thanks

AnotherStitchInTime · 26/07/2014 21:40

Thanks all, I have been holding my own three kids very close today thinking of her poor children.

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