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punched, need someone to talk to

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glasshalfemptygirl · 25/07/2014 06:22

Long story short... My on/off partner found out something he didnt like, got jealous and punched me in my face, this was yesterday and it hurt like hell. Now ive been in pain all night cant sleep so woke up at 5am its not bruised but my cheek is all swollen and in my mouth is all red and swollen difficuit to open. What do anyone sugguest do I go to the doctor or dentist I have no idea of the damage all I know is nurofen is only working for a hour then the pain back is unbearable.

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MissMarplesBloomers · 25/07/2014 11:07

also please ask the hospital to take photos either with their camera or your phone so you have evidence.

Please don't hesitate in calling the police, it could be your daughtet next.

Even if you had slept with the whole England footie team, upsetting though it might be, he does not have the right to assault you.

hellsbellsmelons · 25/07/2014 11:14

Definitely report this to the police.
This is not good at all.
Please then contact Womens Aid and talk things through with them and sign up to their Freedom Programme.

Do not lie or minimise to the hospital. Make sure they know how you got it and why.

Keep this vile abuser away from yourself and more importantly, away from your DD.

If he becomes threatening then call 101 and report everything to the DV unit.

I'm so sorry you've had to suffer this.

But make sure you have no chance of ever suffering it again.

NapoleonsNose · 25/07/2014 11:29

OP, you must absolutely report this to the Police. Go to A&E now as from your description it sounds like he may have broken your jaw. DH was attacked by a random bloke in a petrol station and your symptoms sound very similar. As others have said, do not minimise this to the hospital staff. This man, and I use that word reluctantly as real men don't punch women in the face, must face the consequences.

Morloth · 25/07/2014 11:43

He punched you because he wanted to, that is the only reason.

LurcioAgain · 25/07/2014 11:56

You really, really will be much better off if you can find the strength to report this to the police. Contact WA for real life support, and as others have suggested, change the locks (if you are in rented accommodation, afaik, there is no problem about this so long as you supply the landlord with a key).

bramber21 · 26/07/2014 11:15

Any news OP? Did you get seen at the hospital, did you tell the police, if he can do that because you met a friend who knows what he will do next hope your ok and the scumbag gets his just desserts.

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glasshalfemptygirl · 27/07/2014 22:33

I haven't been on here ive been resting I did go to the hospital and luckily nothing was broken I was there hours felt so lousy after . I dont know whats happening regarding the police as they said someone will visit me but no one has yet. Its been a tough few days don't know what the future holds at the moment.

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handfulofcottonbuds · 27/07/2014 22:54

Good to have your update and I'm glad you've been able to rest. Has the pain eased?

I am amazed you still haven't heard from the Police. I would have thought a member of the DV Unit would have visited you in hospital.

Have you contacted Women's Aid? I know you probably have a 101 things going round your head right now but you need to feel safe.

If he comes near you, please dial 999.

For you Thanks

handfulofcottonbuds · 28/07/2014 07:48

How are you doing this morning? x

sewingandcakes · 28/07/2014 07:55

Please report this assault yourself and don't wait for the hospital to do it Thanks

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glasshalfemptygirl · 28/07/2014 11:42

Pain is still there I got some strong painkillers so should get better by the end of the week I hope, I haven't contacted womens aid yet will do later today or tomorrow and will ring the police if no one shows up today. My on/off partner hasnt really spoken to me since he hasnt been too quick to apologise i think he knows he has lost me for good.

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 28/07/2014 11:54

Don't wait to call the police. Get on the phone and demand to know why they haven't been round to record the assault and start prosecuting. He's done more than lost you, surely? He's looking at a criminal record

Vivacia · 28/07/2014 12:16

Glass how many people do you know personally who have ever been hit by their partner (that you know of)?

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glasshalfemptygirl · 28/07/2014 13:50

I dont think I know any

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Vivacia · 28/07/2014 14:08

I'm trying to understand why this whole affair seems to be out of proportion. You should be thinking of this as,
"Viciously assaulted by an ex-partner"
not,
"My on/off partner hasn't really spoken to me since..."

Only1scoop · 28/07/2014 14:39

Have you actually reported the assault op?

Sorry to hear you still in pain.

Only1scoop · 28/07/2014 14:39

Have you actually reported the assault op?

Sorry to hear you still in pain.

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glasshalfemptygirl · 28/07/2014 15:50

The hospital asked what happened, I told them they said they will inform the police. Then the police said they will visit me at home.

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cestlavielife · 28/07/2014 16:45

get angry.
he deserves to be charged with assault.

regardless of apology or not!

Vivacia · 28/07/2014 16:52

Are you going to contact the police if they don't turn up today?

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