Row with friend - feeling awful

[SolidGoldBrass]

She has had some MH issues. I think it's not really 'her' talking but it's come out of nowhere and she is accusing me of being an enemy and untrustworthy now and I feel a bit shaken up.

Solidgold, sadly there comes a point in time when, no matter what you say or do, the person has a fixed mindset and reality doesn't come into it.

You may find that over time, your friend may come out of this current negative cycle and realise she has done you a disservice and been unfair. Sadly, sometime people with MH cant see through the confusion to think that clearly.

I genuinely would not reproach yourself, you know you have acted in kindness and with good intent, so you cannot sadly be accountable for bigger complexity of your friend's MH issues. I hope she gets help and I wish you peace of mind x