Me and my hubby keeps arguing about inlaws. My inlaws didnt treat me good. Mil treated me as a seperate person by all means ex: by keeping my vessels seperate etc unless i come and clean..else they stay there near sink for days. My mil never liked me from begining. She even commented about my brown complexion saying her maid not to give too hot water for bath else i will grow dark and they both laughed..this was the next day of my marriage when i was at my inlaws place. I ignored it and forgot it..but sometimes i remember. They are also brown. She wanted a fair girl for her son. However my hubby liked me and we both got married. Well I don't care much about any color .i look good however am. I am beautiful. . Well..anyways..Inlaws came to my place stayed for 10 months..and didn't treat me well either. My fil always wants to control my home. He gets irritated and he shows all irritation on me. If me and my hubby fights..fil shows anger on me. I cook for my 2 year old son. My mil cooks for whole family because they dont like my cooking and passed comments when i cooked food. So i left. I like my mil's cooking also. Well..now inlaws left. I am pregnant with 2nd baby in 1st trimister. I lost respect for my inlaws during their stay with us. But i tried to be calm until they left. Now..when my hubby during any discussions tries to take his parents side..am not liking it. He said not to say a word againt his parents infront of him. I asked him why didn't he take care of me and tell that to their parents. My mil keeps calm and queit all the time infront of us..but she tells lot of things to fil....she is the problem creator and tells lot of stuff to fil and fil gets irritated on me. Mil told to everyone that i dint treated her good. Now me and my hubby are fighting whenever discussions about them are there. Am not able to see him always being on their side..though he said that he told fil not to get angry on me and all. But our relationship seems going down. Any suggestions are helpful. Thanks.