I've been seeing someone from work for 5 months. He's going through a divorce and it's almost at the end. I was unsure at first because of the divorce but we get on so well it's like we were meant for each other (cliche I know).
We have literally spent everyday together and I've been staying at his. Over the past month I'd say he got a bit distant and I could tell things were on his mind. We'd talk and he'd just say he is under a lot of pressure at work and with the ex and he just needs calm in the evenings. This upset me a little because it made me feel I wasn't allowed to ask him questions or talk about my feelings. He asked me to stay away this week which I did and we had the odd text and i saw him at work once. We were supposed to be going to a wedding yesterday so I text him on Friday asking if I was still going because I had arranged some beauty appointments and I didn't want to pay out for things if I wasn't going. He replied saying to cancel them and I'm too much pressure and he needs space and doesn't want me to go to the wedding.
Gutted was an understatement, I've spent all weekend in tears and feel like my heart has been ripped out. I have a lot of things at his house which I need to get (including medication) which I text him today to ask when could I go round and collect and he's not bothered to reply.
I'm disappointed he hasn't even bothered to see if I'm ok. I messaged my best friend because I really needed to get out of the house but all she could manage was 'nothing anyone will say will help, it just takes time to get over it'. I was gobsmacking considering I have always been there at the drop of a pin for her (she's newly engaged and hasn't responded to numerous messages about meeting up).
Looking for hugs and some support, feeling lonely.