Not sure if this is in the right place but having relationship crisis

[Hedgehot27uk]

Hi I have been with my dh for 14 years. I feel very alone as I don't have my family. I'm pregnant after traumatic mmc. I have a child living with my mum due to a break down ,but she won't let me see him ,it's heart breaking saying I damaged him when I haven't. Dh mum has fallen out with me saying nasty stuff . And having servere relationship difficulties with dh he keeps getting angry and saying up setting stuff . We are trying to get contact back but I haven't seen him lo from 9 months . social services said I couldn't see him ither my mum has convinced them I've damaged him we are going thro a court to get contact . I feel so alone I just need support.

Sorry you're feeling alone. The best advice would be to work very closely with Social Services and your medical team. Your medical team to help you recover fully from whatever caused the breakdown and give you a clean bill of health, and Social Services because they are the people you need to convince that you are safe to be with your DC. How old is your DS?

Your husband's relationship with you is relevant. If you have had MH problems in the past or continue to be vulnerable, I would have thought his anger and insults are not helping. Neither will it help your case to have access to your DC if your DH is abusive. Is he the father of the DC that is with your DM?