I'm not going to beat around the bush. I've name changed for this.
Mil makes comments whilst in front of family around our dc...it'll be like oh dc is so fat just like mummy. This happens every so often. Comments about my weight. I'm size 10/12 she's about a 14/16.
She was overheard by a friend making comments saying I should just get on with it basically and not expect help from dh after our dc was born. I had a terrible damaging birth and found it hard to walk afterwards as well as look after our other dc's. Dh chipped in as much as he could. She said nowt to my face but said to this other friend that she personally had no help with her dc's growing up, so why should I really.
She makes lots of comments about sil's makeup or clothes or how she is as a person. She seems to dislike people who make 'too' much of an effort with themselves as she sees it.
She said to me a minute after I told her about my pregnancy "no more tight jeans for you". And over the years quite a few other digs then afterwards says she's joking. Is she?? Dh does this too so I don't know if it's a dry sense of humour. I cannot read her at all.
Sorry it's so long I just needed to get that out. I love her and she's a wonderful gm but I cannot understand her.