Hi, I will keep this brief because I can't really share the details. I'm a professional working with a (client) woman who is in a very abusive relationship. In about 15 years there have been two physical assaults but the level of emotional abuse is horrendous....an extremely controlling man, she is rarely alone for a minute, has been unable to work/socialise/ do anything because he is obsessed with her. She is not ready to leave him but realises it is abusive behaviour. She is staying with him for their children and of course that is misguided. Her emerging realisation and growing understanding that this environment will indeed impact on her children will allow her, in my opinion, to leave this relationship. Aside from all the safety planning, advice and support that I have given her I am wondering if there is a book that survivors of emotional abuse or such controlling behaviour have found helpful or insightful. My contact with this lady is short term and has to end soon because of limits to my service. I want to leave her with something that might be help her in her process. Of course I will be discussing safety with her re having something like that in her possession. Any suggestions?