One year on...

[Caorunn]

So DH left a year ago tonight. It has been shite. It became clear he had been having an affair for 2 years before he left. He is now firmly in a relationship with her; playing happy families with my children and hers.

We have been to mediation; I am in counselling. I am nearly whole again I think. Not quite but nearly.

I am here tonight on my own, drinking champagne listening to my music having spend an obscene amount of money on clothes for my holiday with the children next week.

i think I might just about survive this. Not quite happy yet, nor content with where I find myself, definitely lonely on occasions. But I will I think be okay.

[indulgent post]

Well done!!!! I congratulate you. X

Well done. Onwards and upwards.

Congratulations on having rid yourself of him. It is hard. I know. But you will be fine. Have a wonderful holiday

Thank you. Nowt else to be said really. I will be fine - and do actually believe that now

Whoop! Whoop!

Meant to add - - bloody well done to get this far.

I too congratulate you and wish you all the best. You will be more than fine in the end.

More congratulations. Enjoy your champagne and have a wonderful time wearing all those lovely new clothes on holiday.

As already said, onwards and upwards

Remember that Twat's apparently idyllic situation is built on foundations of sand and will one day collapse around his ears like a house of cards, leaving him immersed in shite up to his arse.

Well done on going to counselling to deal with your grief - now look forward not back