Has been living in his car for three days now. We've never had much of a relationship as he's never shown much interest in my sibling and I since we were young. He's been in a relationship with a woman for about 15 years now and she's kicked him out for the nth time. He's ill, probably clinically depressed. He desperately needs an operation on the nhs but for reasons that don't seem clear he won't have it. He lives in an area with profound unemployment and hasn't worked for three years. She refuses to work and lives in the house that she received from her ex husband in a divorce settlement years ago.
My mum is pretty beside herself worrying about him. She is concerned that he has been abused by this woman but he won't talk about it. I know this is mumsnet and they don't have kids but does anyone have any idea what he could do? Mum has sent him countless offers of help and sends him money regularly but this only ever lasts so long. I feel so sad for him. Am a single parent in full time work and can't put him up but I'm scared that his situation is desperate and he may do something silly soon. He's 52. Does anyone have any advice?