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We're not good in bed....

29 replies

Nosexytimes · 06/07/2014 20:21

I've been seeing someone new the last few months and the sex is rubbish.
I've got no experience (i mean none ) so thought it was just cause I was rubbish at me but he assures me it isn't.
The trouble is a really really like him but now that I have started I really want to have decent sex.
What do I do?

OP posts:
VanGogh · 06/07/2014 22:18

I can't agree more with the earlier posters who are telling you that you need to learn your own body before you can help another to understand it.

Spend some alone time with your fingers in your bed.

Nosexytimes · 07/07/2014 11:47

Thanks everyone for the advice! Very helpful.
Will have to put time aside just for me ;-)

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 07/07/2014 12:16

Don't waste time one someone who isn't compatible with you sexually. Doesn't matter how lovely they are as a human being, it will become a source of irritation and resentment. What you have there is a nice friend, not a lover.

naicesex · 07/07/2014 21:53

I would also agree with cognito - all your life ahead of etc etc

BUT! trust us on the masturbation Wink

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