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Miserable and alone

5 replies

Jellyboobs · 06/07/2014 18:48

Sat at home with my little girl feeling utterly miserable as everyone else is out having a jolly old time and plastering it all over facebook and the oh is out all day AGAIN and will be next Sunday and the Sunday after until the end of bloody time!
I haven't been out for months, oh is either working or out himself, so I'm at home with our daughter.
We live in the sticks, theres eff all to do, I miss the city and being near people and actual activities but oh won't live there. Since having lo I don't get invited to anything any more, even my oldest friend is out with mutual mates today without inviting me, and I just feel like shit. i feel.like I'll never have friends for real because of where we are and my situation and then I feel guilty and shitty for wanting to be put and not with my beautiful daughter. Argh! How do people cope????

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littleSpud · 06/07/2014 18:53

Aw op

Didn't want to read and run. You sound really fed up

Where is your dp every weekend? Is he at work?

CatKisser · 06/07/2014 18:55

Right.
This is no way to live.
Can you drive?
How far in the sticks are you? How far is nearest town? There's always a park, a pool or similar SOMEWHERE nearby. Also, this time of year, towns seem to be having their "fun days" which, although horrific for adults, might lead to meeting new people?

CoffeeTea103 · 06/07/2014 18:57

You sound very tired with your situation and you should be! Where is your oh going every Sunday and why aren't yourll included?

Universal · 06/07/2014 19:02

My husband works weekends and I live in a city with loads of mates and I'm still lonely! I try to do more in the day so I get some company and then I'm home for the kids bedtime routine.
If start inviting people over or suggest a park meet up. Once you initiate things. Once you start inviting you get invites back (erm sometimes...). Only my friends whose partners work shifts really understand x

Universal · 06/07/2014 19:03

Sorry I'm trying to feed and type! Hope it makes sense.

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