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My husband makes me want to hurt myself

28 replies

MrsHuxtableReturns · 05/07/2014 16:33

There, I've said it. And I can't even be bothered to name change. He's just come back home from a week away and while it was so exhausting with a baby and a toddler by myself, I was so much more relaxed. I'm meant to be tidying but all I can do is sit on the sofa and stare at my screen because his criticism makes me freeze. Often I am so unhappy I don't want to be alive because I see no way out. I don't even know why I'm writing this. I guess I just want to chat to someone.

OP posts:
Leonwifey · 22/03/2025 06:11

If someone out there understands me please comment

ZekeZeke · 22/03/2025 06:33

Leonwifey · 22/03/2025 06:11

If someone out there understands me please comment

You need to start your own thread..this is a ghost one from 2014

category12 · 22/03/2025 06:33

Leonwifey · 22/03/2025 06:01

Hello I'm going through something right now at this moment right now I wonder if in this entire world this only happens to me... I'm a stay at home mother whom takes care of everything at home for my kid a d husband...clean home dinner at the table bills paid my workd is them 2 all I care for.... today was or is still my husband's birthday I wanted to take him out for dinner and we went out to a restaurant..... on our way there because where we live we need at least a 35 to 45 minutes drive to reach restaurants....we arrive I'm so happy my son too...and we arrive... obviously this place was fully packed with people it's like a sports bar where they sell cheeseburgers ect... well to our table comes a young girl ..keep in mind this place has young women dress a little showing off breast and spandex ...well I don't think nothing of it till we order and then she leaves...well next I say to him I tougjt u ordered a small beer....and he's like I did a 16oz but I guess he brought me. Bigger one...well I was like ok at the same time my son is asking him something about the nba game playing on tv.. he says shuuuut up both of you are talking to me at the same time!! I say to myself God damm well I look at my son and say let's just not talk so we won't upset him...well he'll raised when I said this he started saying all kids of things to me like....this is why my parents got a divorce your acting jealous because of the girl blah blahhblahhh honestly I was not even thinking about it that way and well I could see his face just freaking mad and angry at me over that.... as a mom and wife I felt so little so tiny I got a knot in my troat and felt like dieing...right there and then I'm so scared of getting him mad now all the time I even went to the truck and pressed my neck so hard that I marked myself bruised myself just because I can't anymore.... I try not to get him mad but every little thing I say or do upsets him....this is very random and I can't even believe I'm writing this ...I guess I just can't with myself anymore

Hi @leonwifey i'm so sorry you're going through this. Please speak to the Samaritans or another helpline if you're still feeling like hurting yourself. No man is worth that.

You'd probably be better starting a new thread of your own if you want more replies, as this one is very old and people are likely to miss your post.

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