I was just telling my DP a story about something stressful that happened at work today and midway through he takes out his phone and starts reading an email. I stopped talking and around 40 seconds later he looked up, sees my obviously pissed off face and says "What's with the attitude?" I said "you've just been really rude to me" His reply "Right, sorry but I don't appreciate your attitude". I then try to explain that I thought he was rude and that's why I was annoyed and he stats going on and on that I make a huge deal about everything. I then said (to diffuse a fight) "ok really don't worry it's fine". I honestly made my tone friendly but now he's not talking to me.
Am I wrong to just not think an apology is an apology if its immediately turned around to criticise me?? Or am I just a precious cow? It seems I'm never ever allowed to be upset by anything he does and if I am then it's always turned around on me!