Basically I'm pregnsnt by my bf and because if how our relationship has been going for last 9-12 months decided that it's best that he doesn't move in with me at the moment, may happen in the future but right now it's not the right thing for us!
Bf spends 3 days/night a week (fri-mon) at my house, and also I have his child here EOW and for longer periods on school holidays!
My house currently needs some work, nothing major just decorating carpets, bit done in garden etc that I have been working really hard to get done before baby arrives as I know once he/she is here it's never going to happen!
My bf was saying he would help with the house getting it uptogether etc but since I made it clear last week that we will not be living together at the moment his attitude has changed to basically "oh well tough work for you, you decided to go it alone" and "I suggest you get your ex husband to help pay for stuff" (my ex husband has never oaid a penny towards this children since we split!
Am I wrong or selfish to think that he might help/contribute in someway towards getting house sorted for his child/girlfriend considering he spends a large amount of time here, brings his child here, where they both get fed, watered, heating etc totally free of charge! Also if he can't bring his child here he does not see them as says his place is to cramped (1 bedroom)
I must say I'm totally shocked by this, can't help but wonder if he actually intends to support the new baby at all!!!