Please help

[Fall78]

I had a baby ecs 8 weeks ago i am
Getting married in 6 weeks. My h2b went on his stag weekend when baby was 4 weeks old. Didn't hear much from him bit miffed as I was still in pain. When he got back I asked usual questions strip clubs? No fair enough I thought.

Last night out on my hen with other girls who's DPs were on stag and it all came out the guys paid for my H2b to get a private lapdance.
I am devestated :( feel so horrible as it is then this makes me more insecure.

He doesn't see big deal (why lie then) and said it was five mins no touching. Is this a good enough reason to call off the wedding I am
So drained please advise :(

I don't think it's right to force your partner to have the same perspective about something. Even strip clubs. It seems you're going out of your mind with jealousy but these days you can see bare boobs on the tv more often than not. Or by a quick google. I think it's a poor reason to call off a wedding tbh. It's not like he's off there every week it was a one off.

I recognise that my view might be in the minority here but it is what it is.

Quite I agree with you, but the dealbreaker for me would be his reaction to OPs request for an adult conversation.

He knew she would hate it. He has told her he doesn't have to explain himself to her. That is what would fuck me off.

That and the calling her "mental."

Anything is a good enough reason to call off a wedding if you want too.

If someone does something that means if you were just dating you wouldn't see them anymore then surely you can see you shouldn't marry them? I am not saying you should call off the wedding, I am just saying do not tolerate something just because a wedding is booked.