How long can you go on doing as you please before you get caught out? Basicly, I left my emotionally abusive husband, he was also a bully, nearly a year ago. During our marriage he seemed to think he could just do as he pleased, the rules that apply to everyone else didn't to him,examples - he watched porn on internet and I didn't especially like it but apparently all blokes do it so he carried on, often when I was out with dcs or asleep. He drank far too much, if I said anything I was moaning, he used to often get into car the following morning still over the limit, he used to actually drink behind the wheel too, he would fix certificates so it looks like he has taken the most recent exam when all he did was type over the old date, he is not declaring all his earnings either as self employed, there is more but I will stop there otherwise I will go on forever! His attitude seemed(and still is)that he is invincible, he can just do whatever he likes and he does. It's infuriating - anyone else experienced individuals like this? If so does it ever catchup with them?