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Staying strong... staying away ?

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SimplyComplicated · 28/06/2014 14:37

Advice needed please to help me do this. I left the house I shared with my partner of 7 years at the beginning of the week
(back story to what happened here: www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2111639-7-year-itch )

Despite knowing it was the right thing to do, I am really struggling to stay away. Have been inundated with texts etc that have been so apologetic begging me to come home and saying how disgusted he is with himself and that he cannot face a future without me in it.

I think the uncertainty of what to with myself and my future (I'm currently spending my nights on the sofas as finding somewhere permanent and affordable is proving impossible) is adding to the fact that I have been tempted to go back home and try to work things out.

Any-one got some wise words that will talk some sense into me, and make staying away seem a bit easier? Just feel so alone, lost and without a purpose now.

OP posts:
SimplyComplicated · 28/06/2014 14:53

*on the sofas of different friends

OP posts:
SoleSource · 28/06/2014 16:27

After reading your previous thread, do not go back, you are twenty five!! Please don't go back to him, easy to say, immensly diifficult to do but you mustn't let this ruin your life, you have taken charge, follow it through, work on you, see a therapist x

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