Advice really needed here.
My ex partner (who I have a child with) divorced from his ex wife 6 years ago. He was having an affair with a work colleague and she obviously found out. When I met him, that affair was coming to an end and he was very remorseful about what he had done etc etc (or so he claimed, obviously have the benefit of hindsight here.) They had children together.
It transpired that he had significant alcohol and perhaps mental health issues, and it is these together with unfaithfulness (again, surprise surprise), and is attitude towards our daughter and me, that led to our split. At the time, his ex wife was also launching tirades of abuse at both my children and me by email (including investigations into us!) following the birth of our daughter, which led to the Police being involved. It was a totally shattering experience. They issued her a harassment warning at her workplace, told her that she had narrowly avoided arrest (only because she stopped the abuse for a short period of time - the original plan was to transport her to my local police station from her work for questioning) and advised me that if she contacted me again, it would be arrest.
My ex said that he was confident that she would never do such things again blah blah blah. But he stuck his head in the sand the whole time, and from what I can make out, told everyone what they wanted to hear.
I don't have contact with him anymore because of his alcoholism (quite severe) and constantly harassing me with texts and emails through the night making bizarre (probably drink and drug fuelled) accusations. Repeatedly asked him to stop, particularly as am trying to deal with my mother having been taken into hospital with a heart attack and Lung Cancer (as well as raising two kids on my own and working.) Just got a load of abuse back. So warned him to stop. He's also been texting my friends through the night too, which they've ignored. :( :( I've asked him to go into rehab and then come and talk to me about contact with DD. He had quite a nasty car accident a couple of years ago (undoubtedly drink related) and there is no way she is getting into a car with him at the moment. We have a court hearing about other matters coming up soon, and he has one with his ex wife about finances in a couple of months.
Anyway, back to his ex wife. Bearing in mind the police harassment warning that was issued to her at her work, that she lives hundreds of miles away, that I am no longer with my ex (her ex husband.) Onto the mat this morning plops a bright red debt recovery letter - she has registered one of her debts at MY address.
Any thoughts?????