Been with my partner 13 years, mostly happy but issues along the way, especially around his son which seems on-going.
I saw a text on my partner's mob saying nite nite xxx
I didn't think this appropriate and asked him who it was, he said it was a woman we both know from years ago, from going to the same parties and clubs etc, I don't remember her or recognise the name.
We were at a party the weekend before and he insists she was there with her b/f but also said she was all over him (my partner), I saw nothing but was mingling with everyone so it's possible I just can't remember.
He professes this was the first ever text he's had off her but you wouldn't text someone out of the blue saying nite nite, would you?
I don't believe he's having an affair cos he works 12 hours every day and then comes home to me so it would be impossible.
However, I do not believe this is the first ever text, he told me they exchanged numbers years ago at one of the parties but insists this is the first time he's heard from her.
It's driving me nuts, I don't believe him, he insists he has done nothing wrong and is not lying, I can't get past this, I'm at the point of splitting up with him over it, I just feel in my gut there's more to it, as in, they are obviously friends and do communicate, why can't he just fess up, he's made it bigger now that it has to be.
What would you think?