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Pregnant, sex and relationships

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Blackcurrentapple · 22/06/2014 10:37

I'm 6 months pregnant and to start with my boyfriend really did not want the baby! I choose to keep the baby with or without him and was very happy with this choice.

Anyway the problem I'm facing now is the fact that since I have been pregnsnt there has been no sexual/emotional relations at all!

We have had sex once and that was over 2 months ago and that was only because I threw such a strop about it, so he attempted to have sex with me, none of us got xmy fulfillment out of it and after I overheard him on phone to mate basically saying how he had "managed to do the deed" almost like a high five me!!!

So he makes it 100% clear he finds pregnancy disgusting, he even makes comments how I couldn't go to ascot with him this year (he didn't bother inviting me) because I apprantly wouldn't enjoy being around all those dresses up beautiful girls looking like this....... For the record I'm still a very slim size 8 with a very small football type bump!

And it not just the sex it the total lack if physical affection, there are no longer cuddles, kissess anything!

I'm just really starting to resent him and honestly can't see our relationship lasting the rest of the pregnancy if this carrys on, I'm just beginging to hate him for all the hurtful things he has said about me and the baby (which he really didn't want)

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Blackcurrentapple · 23/06/2014 21:57

He is gone, I ended up having to bite my toungue all day yeasterday and this morning as I didn't want my kids to hear a argue ment! But as soon as I dropped them to school this morning I came home and told him to leave!

Icing on the cake was him taking my last £10 out my purse on Sunday to go by beer with then willing to leave his pregnant girlfriend and her children with no money, no electric and no bread or milk until wends!!!

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CaptainSinker · 23/06/2014 23:18

Well done. Sounds like you will be happier now.

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