I posted a month ago about my husband and how he is/things are. I was desperate at the time, but as usual, things blew over and moved on. Until wednesday when the whole sorry cycle started again.
Except this time was different. For me. I didn't let him take control. I told him I could not cope with his behaviour and that I think he has a MH problem. He didn't take it well.
Two days on he is following the same pattern as usual. Ignores me. Laughs excessively at the tv. Takes long baths.
I am sooo past this poiny. Why has he not even noticed my 'stand'? I told him things have to change because I wilk not put up with his constant criticism of me, finding fault, obsessiveness, hoarding etc. He told me he didn't care and he doesn't have a problem. I told him if things don't change we are done.
The pattern is he ignores for a few days. Is absent. Then just goes back to normal.
I am at the stage now where i think that if he does acknowledge that he has a problem, its too late.
I need to stay strong. I feel sorry for him but spy a better life alone.