He needs to think first

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Been divorced for 3 years. A friend of ex dh says he has feelings for me but that it's complicated and thinks it would cause all kinds of drama if we were together although ex dh cheated on me and left to be with ow. We have 4 children between us. He says he has always liked me that way but never would have acted on it. That he can see picture us happy living together in the future. He said he need to think about things.

Has anyone ever got together with someone in a situation like this. He knows I have feelings for him too. Could it be he is just trying to let me down gently?

Did you post about this recently? If it wasn't you then you are not alone with this problem.
The other poster was being given the run around, do you think that perhaps you are too? Lots of men seem to have feelings for someone until that person actually becomes available.

Don't put your life on hold for him, it's usually a waste of time.