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The Script

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MyChildDoesntNeedSleep · 20/06/2014 10:40

Has anybody got a link to the script that these men that leave follow. I keep hearing about it on here and a friend of mine is going through it. Her ex is claiming he's having a nervous breakdown and she's wavering on taking him back because she feels bad for him. I'm sure I've read that's part of the script. She thinks he loves her so much that this is happening to him. Hmm In truth he was out trying to pull on Saturday and was unsuccessful. Probably has realised the grass isn't greener. He's bombarding her with hundreds of calls and texts even though when they were together he claimed he never thought about her when they weren't together and that's why he never texted/called. In fact his very words were 'I don't give you a second thought' He said so many nasty things to her when he left. He is emotionally abusive and even her daughter said 'can you see how nice the atmosphere is in the house now that he's gone'? This is a ten year old. Sad

Please give me something to show her before she makes a massive mistake.

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MyChildDoesntNeedSleep · 20/06/2014 15:25

Thanks lacktoast (great username by the way!)

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lacktoastandtolerance · 20/06/2014 15:41

No problem - and thanks Smile. Hope everything gets better for your friend.

MyChildDoesntNeedSleep · 20/06/2014 16:34

I don't think she's talking to me now because I finally exploded and told her what I think of him. Sad

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Fontella · 20/06/2014 16:41

Good for you. I've done the same with someone close to me and I haven't seen hide nor hair of her since. That was a couple of weeks ago. Heard on the grapevine she's taken him back. Things this bloke has said and done to her don't bear thinking about.

It feels like flogging a dead horse sometimes, but you are better off being honest, rather than sugar coating.

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